Living with a Small, Curved Dick

curved-penisMost men are very self-conscience about the size, shape, and appearance of their penis. Having a small penis is often a major confidence killer, but having a small and curved one can be a death sentence for a social or sex life. If you’re living with a small, curved penis, there’s no need to worry. Here are a few tips and tricks to help you maximize your sex life and improve your confidence, no matter what your penis looks like.

Ask Yourself: Does my penis size/shape prevent me from having sex?

There are conditions, such as Peyronie’s Disease, that cause a dramatic curvature of the penis. This is caused by a buildup of plaque or scar tissue under the skin’s surface, and can make getting an erection difficult or painful.

So, ask yourself; does it hurt to get hard?

Other than confidence issues, is the size or shape of my penis physically preventing me from having sex? If the answer is no, then there are no physical issues preventing you from enjoying your sex life.

couples-enjoy-sexAsk yourself: Do you enjoy sex? Are you happy with your partner?

Many of the problems that men with small or curved penises face all only exist within their own minds. Poor self-confidence can make it difficult to enjoy sex, or even to get an erection.

If you’re having trouble, ask yourself: am I happy with my sex partner? A lack of happiness or connection in your relationship can prevent you from having a happy and healthy sex life.

Ask yourself: Are you focusing on yourself or your partner?

Men with small or curved penises often have to work harder to make sure their partners reach orgasm. This often includes learning new foreplay techniques, relying on oral sex, or introducing toys to the bedroom.

Ask yourself: Who are you focusing on? If you’re focusing only on yourself, especially if you have a penis that is smaller than average or curved, then you risk losing any partners you come into contact with. No one wants to sleep with someone who’s selfish in the bedroom, so try focusing on your partner more than on yourself.

straighten-penisAsk yourself: Do you want to change your penis size or shape?

If you are truly unhappy with the size or shape of your penis, there are some avenues that you can explore to change it. Penis stretchers, also known as penile traction devices, are the only safe and effective way to lengthen and straighten your penis. These medical grade devices are also often used for the treatment of Peyronie’s disease as well.

There are sites that advertise pills, pumps, and other techniques to increase the length of your penis. These do not work, and many have unpleasant or even dangerous side effects.

If you decide that using a penis stretcher is the best plan, make sure you check with your doctor first to makes sure it’s safe for you to attempt straightening or lengthening your penis. A diagnosis of Peyronie’s disease may require alternate treatments.

Image Credit and Treatment Advice:
http://healthland.time.com/2012/06/08/a-new-treatment-for-curved-penis/

Love Without Sex – Is It Possible?

Love and sex are often considered interchangeable terms. If you’re in love, you’re expected to have sex with your partner, and if you are having sex then most people assume that you are in love. Can one of these concepts exist without the other?

in-loveIs it possible to have love without the need for sex or physical intercourse?

Asexuality

The concept of asexuality isn’t a new one, but it’s one that most people associate with the animal kingdom. Asexual individuals don’t experience sexual attraction at all, with members of either the same or opposite sex.

There are different degrees of asexuality. Sex-repulsed asexual individuals, for example, are repulsed or disgusted by the idea of sex. Gray-Asexual individuals feel that their sexuality falls somewhere between asexual and sexual, but there is no name for their precise sexuality. Demisexual individuals, on the other hand, will initially feel no sexual attraction, but if they develop a deep emotional connection with a person, than they could possibly develop a secondary sexual attraction to that person.

Love

Love is a difficult subject to quantify. For some people it can mean the relationship between a mother and child, or siblings, or friends.

Romantic love is the type of emotion that is most often associated with sexual relationships. By definition, romantic love and attraction is the form of emotional connection that makes people desire romantic contact with the target of their affection.

Can one exist without the other?

Now, to the million dollar question: can love exist without sex?

The short answer is yes. Romantic relationships can be happy, healthy, and complete without the need for sex.

no-sex-romanticHow can a romantic relationship be maintained without sex?

The key to any relationship is to maintain healthy communication. By keeping an open line of communication between you and your partner, you can make sure that you are both happy and any issues can be resolved without fighting.

So, other than communication, how can you maintain a relationship without sex?

  • Make date nights a priority. It doesn’t matter if you have a busy work schedule, or children to take care of, or anything else. Schedule a weekly date night. Even if you just go out to dinner and a movie, or sit together and watch a meteor shower, make it a point to take time to spend together.
  • Never go to bed angry. If you fight, stay up as long as it takes to resolve the fight and determine what caused it in the first place.
  • Enjoy the little things. A smile on your partners face or a flower tucked behind their ear can mean more than any gift, trip, or date that you may plan.

Conclusions

No matter what popular culture may tell you, love and sex are not mutually exclusive concepts. One can and often does exist without the other. As long as you’re happy, that’s all that matters. Your sex life or lack thereof, has no bearing the happiness of your relationship.