Most men are very self-conscience about the size, shape, and appearance of their penis. Having a small penis is often a major confidence killer, but having a small and curved one can be a death sentence for a social or sex life. If you’re living with a small, curved penis, there’s no need to worry. Here are a few tips and tricks to help you maximize your sex life and improve your confidence, no matter what your penis looks like.
Ask Yourself: Does my penis size/shape prevent me from having sex?
There are conditions, such as Peyronie’s Disease, that cause a dramatic curvature of the penis. This is caused by a buildup of plaque or scar tissue under the skin’s surface, and can make getting an erection difficult or painful.
So, ask yourself; does it hurt to get hard?
Other than confidence issues, is the size or shape of my penis physically preventing me from having sex? If the answer is no, then there are no physical issues preventing you from enjoying your sex life.
Ask yourself: Do you enjoy sex? Are you happy with your partner?
Many of the problems that men with small or curved penises face all only exist within their own minds. Poor self-confidence can make it difficult to enjoy sex, or even to get an erection.
If you’re having trouble, ask yourself: am I happy with my sex partner? A lack of happiness or connection in your relationship can prevent you from having a happy and healthy sex life.
Ask yourself: Are you focusing on yourself or your partner?
Men with small or curved penises often have to work harder to make sure their partners reach orgasm. This often includes learning new foreplay techniques, relying on oral sex, or introducing toys to the bedroom.
Ask yourself: Who are you focusing on? If you’re focusing only on yourself, especially if you have a penis that is smaller than average or curved, then you risk losing any partners you come into contact with. No one wants to sleep with someone who’s selfish in the bedroom, so try focusing on your partner more than on yourself.
Ask yourself: Do you want to change your penis size or shape?
If you are truly unhappy with the size or shape of your penis, there are some avenues that you can explore to change it. Penis stretchers, also known as penile traction devices, are the only safe and effective way to lengthen and straighten your penis. These medical grade devices are also often used for the treatment of Peyronie’s disease as well.
There are sites that advertise pills, pumps, and other techniques to increase the length of your penis. These do not work, and many have unpleasant or even dangerous side effects.
If you decide that using a penis stretcher is the best plan, make sure you check with your doctor first to makes sure it’s safe for you to attempt straightening or lengthening your penis. A diagnosis of Peyronie’s disease may require alternate treatments.
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